The Word "FIRST"
It is common for people to talk about the first wedding night and it is common for people to dream about the first wedding night. Though, this name "first wedding night" is more like the conventional name only and it has nothing to do with the real situation and with the first wedding night. In most cases it is never the first night.
It is not the first night from all possible points of view. First of all, let's think over the day of wedding. This day usually starts in the morning and lasts until the night comes. People celebrate this day because they are happy. And they communicate and dance and have fun. Though, the fun takes a lot of strength and people are exhausted with the celebration.
Now, imagine two exhausted people who were dancing and drinking champagne and here they are alone in the hotel room, exhausted and tired and all they need right here and right now is just a sleep. They will barely want to make love and even if they want it will never be as good as they wanted it to be. And the first wedding night is nit first from the point of view of first experience.
Today, the first wedding night is just another night when people make love, it is the first night they make love as husband and wife but it is not the real first time. See, the word "first" is of no meaning in this phrase.
Did you know that…
The wedding night is a great stress for those people who are virgin. So, in other words in most cases it is a great stress for girls, especially for those girls who are virgins and who have a lot of dreams about the way this night will be. And there are good friends of them who know the secret of the first night, the secret that will help a girl to reduce the tension.
